Autism and a Thankful Mom

Autism and a Thankful Mom

Everyone who has been with us for a while knows that while I'd never say autism is easy or that I'm thankful for autism, I do try to look at the bright side of things. I don't know why God put autism in our lives and I don't like the struggle that Casey and Rob have to handle every day. But, there are always things to be thankful for, if you look hard enough.

I'm so very, very thankful for my family. From the first time we heard the word "autism" til today, they have been with us through this journey. They let me vent and let me cry and are always willing to help when I need it. (Do I always ask? well.... no, but, I'm getting better at that!) When I hear about so many families that aren't as accepting, it breaks my heart and makes me even more grateful!

I'm so thankful for the amazing people I've met through this autism journey. From other parents (who give me so much love and support!) to professionals that became friends, our circle continues to grow. It's not easy for me to let people get close to us, but I'm trying.

For the staff who work so hard with Casey and Rob every day - who keep them safe and make sure they have fun, too. They make suggestions (sometimes, they see things in Casey or Rob that I'm too close to notice - can't see the forest for the trees and all of that!) and take Casey places that Rob has no interest in going. I'm so thankful for that - I want her to try everything she dreams of!

I'm still so excited and grateful that our autism journey allowed me to reach a dream I have had since I was a little girl - to write a book! And, even more exciting, to write a second one with Mandy about autism and siblings. I'm so thankful she was willing to open up and share the hard parts of having a sibling with autism with the world. And she's so funny!

I'm thankful for everything that autism has taught me. To stand up for what's right. To speak to large groups of people. To learn that the simple things in life truly are the most important. To always lean on God and trust his plan (even as, sometimes, I want to ask Him if he's sure he hasn't confused me with someone else! ha!) To always believe in the magic of Christmas. To reach for dreams - both mine and theirs. That dark days do get brighter - eventually. To hold tight to the people who love us.

I hope each of you can find something to be thankful for this week, too. And that your Thanksgiving is perfect - just the way you and your family want it to be! It won't look like ours or anyone else's and that's fine! Enjoy being unique and special!

Happy Thanksgiving from our house to yours! Be happy and be safe!